Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Joy and Happiness: What's the Difference?


Mike Hosey, Elder

Joy and happiness are two different things. Both are pleasant, and both are good to have in one’s life.  But Joy is, by far, the greater of the two. You see, if one pursues happiness, one may never find joy.  But if one pursues joy, one is very likely to gain some happiness along the way.

The reason for this is that joy is lasting, and based on something internal to one’s self.  It is a state of being, a way of looking at the world, and a manner of experiencing and processing those things around one that are both good and bad. Happiness, on the other hand, is external, transient, and based only on pleasant things, pleasant events, and pleasant happenstance. The joyful man is content because he knows the end of the story, and can endure the hardships and tragedies, and sadness, and can even celebrate them (sometimes) because of that knowledge. He can have cheer in the midst of pain because he knows the value of things to come, and can see the value in the places he’s been. The happy man can only be happy when circumstances are pleasing. When those circumstances change
By Gert Germeraad (Own work), via Wikimedia Commons
for the worse, his value is lost, and the happiness disappears.

So profound is the difference between the two that James tells us to count it all joy when we are met by troubles (James 1:2). He explained in the next verses that these troubles test our faith and help to transform us into something perfect and complete. The joy which James writes about comes from knowing the truth of ultimate victory and ultimate value!

Happiness is recognizing that your girlfriend or boyfriend is pleasing to look at and beautiful.  This year.

Joy is knowing that your spouse has walked the hard road with you, and will walk with you to the end of it, and will share with you the good times and the bad times along that road because he or she has an enduring love.

Happiness is the excitement of lust, infatuation, and youth. Joy is the commitment and love of a spouse that is rooted in the commitment and love of God.

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