Mike Hosey, Elder |
I have always told my children that I hate lying. In fact, I’ve
explained to them many times over that lying will get them (at least) double
the punishment. The reason is
twofold. First, they are going to get chastened
for the wrong they committed. Then, they
are going to get disciplined for the second wrong of lying about what they did.
If they tell me the truth from the beginning, they are only going to get
punished for the one thing they did wrong.
In human terms, there’s a very clear and understandable
reason for my severity regarding untruths: lying destroys trust. I explain to them that since I am not all
knowing, a lie destroys my ability to entrust them with responsibilities or
privileges in the future. And I explain to them that such trust issues
will bleed over to their other relationships as well. At some point, I argue, lies
will render their friendships and kinships unreliable, and possibly treacherous.
But these are all human reasons. Our relationship with God is a bit different
than our relationships with others.
Proverbs 15:3 tells us that God sees everything. There is nowhere that we can go, and there is
nothing we can do, and God not know about it. When we lie to God, the issue is
not about trust. This is because God already knows whether or not we can be
trusted. The issue is one of
respect. If we tell God we did not do
something, knowing that He was there to see the whole thing unfold in its naked
truth, then we are showing God complete disrespect.
Unfortunately, the husband and wife team of Ananias and Sapphira
learned this the hard way (Acts 5:1-10). The congregation of their church was selling
off property and giving it to a communal pool for distribution to the
poor. The congregation did this
willingly and without coercion. But Ananias and Sapphira lied to God about the
price for which they had sold their property. Perhaps they were trying to avoid
the social judgment of their fellow church members. In any case, their
disrespect was met with death.
Any time we lie to God we are disrespecting Him. Anytime we lie to ourselves, or to others, we
are disrespecting the image of God. And
with each lie, a bit of whatever goodness we have dies, as we find it easier
and easier to lie.
Thankfully, we worship a God who is able to raise us from
the dead.